Saturday, July 15, 2006











People say love is like a heaven. It has so much power that it can make anyone free from all sort of problems. It can happpen to anyone just a smile is required.















Does love really made in heaven? but to go to heaven you need to be selfless. Now people love each other because they have some desire. Now this desire can be anything and may go to any extent. One person love other because they feels will be much more happier than before.
but the problem is when a person goes into some relationship his selfless love becomes selfish.
U know why???















Just because a relationship which can be
any type like husband wife , brother sister,, mother child, father son....































There is always a limit of love. People think we can love anyone too much but can't able to love infinitely just because they have fear of losing.






























































Please don' t interpret this negative, I just want to say that when you love someone to have some relationship you have a fear of losing and this fear make you weak and leads lots of pain during uneven circumstances.


























See, I just want to tell that if we follow unconditional love, love someone for no any reason, then you will have infinite reason to love, love someone with expecting nothing in return and when you do that you will definitely get divinity as you become both selfless and fearless.







































"To be affected by nothing is freedom" Said by Great spiritual leader Swami Vivekananda.
then u will not be affected
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Thus you can nourish that infinite love, although it is painful and lot of challenges have to be overcome, because of human instinct. The infinite love is nothing but GOD.
So let us explore the GOD hidden inside all of us, let us live this life to love everyone not someone, so that nothing limits our love and thus we attain that cent % happiness, which is nothing but satisfaction.


To be Continued...

CONTINUE.................














When you love someone unconditionally you will have infinite reason to love, the biggest gift by God is the ability to love, if it unconditionally then it will surely leads to divinity.
Love is expansion, love is life.







































































But the problem is we have to love someone conditionally because our culture and society doesn't permit us to come out of our shell.






As a result of which, we try to make one person or one community happy through out our life, consequence of which makes us a bit selfish and thus weak.



























Thus we never come out of this hypocrite heaven and hence never able to manifest our life
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Try to love many people equally and unconditionally I bet you, you will able to get that cent % happiness or satisfaction.















Then your mentality will now leads to the growth of humanity.


























































"Give and don’t expect, believe me! you will get infinite happiness or satisfaction from ur life".



























Last but not the least,Spirituality is an ideal path which will supports us to love everyone infinitely, which is all about to be selfless and honest in whatever we does or think.












By VISHAL SINHA
vishalsinha.85@gmail.com

26 comments:

Gaya3 said...

hi vishal...again one of ur good ones....
u r right in all ur lines...but we r humans...who tend to learn after gettin affected by it....love is so powerful..tat it makes us forget all..even ourselves....unconditinal love is possible only when u get it already... :-)..this is just my opinion..
yet..a good one to share man[:)]

joji said...

Initially I thought the caption was overemphasising...,

But as I went through the matter I understood that the "love" you were referring to wasn't unconditional..,

But what perplexes me most is how one can call something conditional as love. It should be lust or greed or something of that kind.

Anonymous said...

Excellent one vishal,u r simply suberp.I am spellbound by ur thinking power and writing talent........


Pavan

Anonymous said...

In Pratice there are certain things which cant be said but your are right ..Hold on this until your life
Balu

Anonymous said...

Gud piece of work vishal! I truly appreciate ur thots abt it, but id like to share sumthing here! Love starts with being unconditonal but finally ends up in being conditional only. A very practical example!"husband-wife" if they start loving each other unconditionally forever, then du think there wud be any kind of intimacy between thm?
Even in our families, can u bear ur best friend say a word about ur mother even if he is right! we cannot. there comes the conditionality here! U love ur best friend & ur mother too but u end up being possessive abt her if anybody says a word! that is it!
I believe we shud try to b non- possesive most of the times but possessiveness is inevitable in a relation.
Think it over & let me know! It was just a wild thot, hope u dont
mind it! but amazing efforts, i must say!! keep it up! keep going!

Anonymous said...

Good work keep going....

Anonymous said...

Nice one. The best part is after reading this and ur previous article, a new message , a priceless philosophy is obtained which is great!Keep it up mann!

Anonymous said...

dat was a nice article vishal but very difficult to implement u knw...but i'll surely try..thankyou..God bless..

Anonymous said...

"Loving what you get is compromise,
getting what you love is success,
loving without caring whether you get or not is true love,
loving even after knowing that you wont get is pure love"

Anonymous said...

hey guess what?i totally agree love is selfish..u would do anythin for the one u love cause u probably wouldn be happy if u lost them..n yes expect somethin in return cause again u are lookin for security..but see?i think the beauty lies in how ur selfishness is dependent on another person all together!!

Anonymous said...

very true Vishal....
Hats off to u...

Anonymous said...

God!!can I sue you for copywrights? LOL I defenitely cant!! these were just in my mind and you've said it!!! Love can never be selfless!

Anonymous said...

hi vishal...i understand havin compassion for all...but hows it possible to love everyone equally...especially in a world whr everone is runnin against time.....or may be i did not quite understand the"love" that u talked abt...lukin forward to read the rest of this article........:)

Anonymous said...

love can never be a give and take relation. but ofcourse it has to be a two sided process. i do agree with thagt the less u expect the more happy u r and satisfied as well.its all abt mutual understanding and respecting each others emotions and feelings. its a wonderful feeling.

Ash said...

to love someone as you say, is very difficult indeed. There are expectations not only from our side but also from the person we love. In the process of pleasing that person we sometimes lose track of what love is all about. I agree that expectations is the greatest hurdle in the path of love but then what is life without expectations? we love coz we hope to be happy. And yes, i'll tell u this, its not easy knowing that the person you love does not love you and yet being in love with them! I agree that, that is love at its best but then its bound to make us sceptical of the whole concept of love.

Anonymous said...

Nice one, Vishal but Today, unconditional love is very rarely seen. I appreciate your effort to make everybody aware of this fact.
Keep it up.....

Prem

KAVANA D RAJAN said...

hey your blogs are just too good!!is it ok if i link your blogs in mine???

Anonymous said...

love is d eternal striving of man....the more u get, the more u want... but to hav more,u giv more..

Anonymous said...

to understand all wht u've written, one thing is clear... y dont every individual put their feet in every individuals shoes n feel the difference n stop differenciating n discriminating n understand this, tht all of us are sailing in the same boat....
itz difficult but not at all impossible............
y worry, for wht 2nd person thinks bout u.. rather focus on wht u think bout self n all!!!!!!!
itz a b-e-a-utiful life... so love is all v r seeking for n love is all v r here for.... love,peace,joy,help,spread,knowledge, all are interlinked... if one link is missing the entire chain is incomplete..... so every individualz contribution is required, to make it a complete chain.
kk

Vishal said...

@all Thanku for reading..

Unknown said...

hey vishal.. maddy here..

thanx for teaching me how to love humanity...

Keep sharing ur experiences.

take care.

Niharika said...

its was a good one Vishal....I would like to read more about swami vivekanand.

avanish sharma said...
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avanish sharma said...

good one dude!!

Unknown said...

i totally agree wid u vishal..infact its not that difficult in life to jus do n leave the rest...our duty is to do..as we are doers...we shudnt expect anything in return..coz expectation is always a selfish motto n love can nvr b selfish..good work bhaiyya..kp it up..

AngelFrU said...

your thoughts are preety beautiful.....dats all i feel
keep up d gud work..

n yes keep loving unconditionally